So I was having this discussion with Mr A about choosing a spouse and we had differing views. If you don’t know who Mr A is click here to meet him.
Anyway, so Mr A felt God does not out rightly “choose” who we marry while I felt God is interested in every aspect of our lives and if who we marry is a big decision we have to make then why wouldn’t he be interested?
I also strongly believe in the passage:
“Trust in the Lord with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding. In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths.” Proverbs 3:5-6 KJV
That we have to constantly entrust our ways in God’s hands and this includes all our decisions as a person.
And I know that sometimes man can be fickle in choosing and making decisions generally which is why we need God’s help in making decisions.
Mr A explained that though we can be guided and led, it is not the same as God “choosing” for us. In his words, there is no “THE ONE” because what if that “ONE” dies?
Anyway, we shared our differing views in details and we eventually came to a mid-point in this video.
Click here to watch. I trust that it will bless you.
On a lighter note, if someone came to meet you telling you, God told them you are their wife/husband, what would be your response?
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