So I was having this discussion with Mr A about choosing a spouse and we had differing views. If you don’t know who Mr A is click here to meet him.

This is Mr A though..

Anyway, so Mr A felt God does not out rightly “choose” who we marry while I felt God is interested in every aspect of our lives and if who we marry is a big decision we have to make then why wouldn’t he be interested?

I also strongly believe in the passage:

“Trust in the Lord with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding. In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths.” Proverbs 3:5-6 KJV

That we have to constantly entrust our ways in God’s hands and this includes all our decisions as a person.

And I know that sometimes man can be fickle in choosing and making decisions generally which is why we need God’s help in making decisions.

Mr A explained that though we can be guided and led, it is not the same as God “choosing” for us. In his words, there is no “THE ONE” because what if that “ONE” dies?

He also explained how in the new covenant, there are some major things we should concern ourselves with as regards marriage which he shared on my youtube channelon my youtube channel

Anyway, we shared our differing views in details and we eventually came to a mid-point in this video.

Click here to watch.  I trust that it will bless you.

On a lighter note, if someone came to meet you telling you, God told them you are their wife/husband, what would be your response?

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3 thoughts on “DOES GOD CHOOSE WHO WE MARRY? | ft. Mr A

  1. I’ve gotten the ‘God told me you’re my wife’ line before and the first thing I felt was irritation.

    I don’t doubt that God can reveal someone to you as your spouse, but I don’t think this should be your very obvious opening line.

    Become friends with me, grow with me, earn my trust and then, you can let me know what God revealed to you about me.

    That’s just what I feel. Someone else might want to know out rightly 🤷‍♀

    Different strokes for different folks.

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